Running office-based Christian dating services since 1995 and speaking regularly to thousands of "Christian singles" nationwide has us centered in the christian dating and "christian singles" world. Here are some thoughts to stimulate dialog and thought. (It's been said that we humans rarely communicate ... we just "opinionate each other to death.")
"Christian singles," by the way, is a term we tend to avoid because it conjures up thoughts of "Christian single church groups" (often "ministry magnets" that attract less emotionally healthy, less relationship-ready single Christians.) So Christian dating in that context is often quite dangerous and rarely wise. In fact we usually recommend against "christian singles" trying christian dating in church singles groups. (Consider the post-breakup challenges.)
So what is a "Christian single" to do if looking to fill the "heart-shaped hole" God put inside Adam and most of the rest of us?
- Option A: Sit around and wait for God to drop him/her into our life ("sanctified passivity.")
- Option B: Scour the pews and turn church into a "christian dating service" scene.
- Option C: Be proactive ... FOLLOW CHRIST to the place He sets aside to meet men and women of God ... healthy Christian dating services (online or office, though expensive.)
His groceries are at the grocery store. His gas is at gas stations. His relationship-ready single Christians in search of His partner for them ("christian singles") are at online christian introduction / matchmaking services. If you're a christian single in pursuit of healthy christian dating with a christian single of substance, use a respectable, proven, GENUINELY CHRISTIAN online christian dating service ... like Singles Of Faith / SinglesOfFaith.Com ... the Christian Dating Service you can trust. And make sure the rest of your day is amazing in our Lord!
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